Help with a name

What I've found easiest, instead of saying male or female kaze is saying male cafe or female cafe. Example, I say mines, Alexa say we need a pet, I say male cafe, she says oh I heard cafe, do you mean kaze, I say yes and then she says you have a male and female, then I choose. It's extra steps but Kaze is worth. Sidenote, for some reason, I can usually equip equipment but saying equip to kaze. Hope that was helpful.